Reading as a Family Is a Win-Win Learning Opportunity!
I truly believe that families that read together learn together, and have the opportunity to experience life and bond with one another in a whole new way. It’s one of my favorite past times and a win-win situation.
Reading as a family can be fun and rewarding and is an excellent way to spend quality time with one another. Let’s not forget that it’s also highly educational and a tradition that can be easily adopted.
5 Tips to Making Family Reading Time a Success!
Over the years, I’ve found through trial and error a few tricks that have really helped in this endeavor.
- Try to read together regularly; at the same time of each day if possible. We always read together in the evening, and it works really well for us. And, if what we are reading is boring, instead of being disruptive, the younger kids just fall asleep.
- Pick books that are important to you. Choosing age appropriate books should be a consideration, but also try reading texts that everyone may not be otherwise exposed to regularly. Religious texts, poems, plays, and the like are great examples. Not only does this introduce different forms of expression, one has to “translate” the text in order to get the meaning. These types of texts are excellent for discussion both during the reading and afterward.
- Discuss, discuss, discuss. What better way to get everyone involved in a conversation than over a shared experience?
- Give everyone a chance to read. Even if the child doesn’t know how to read, let them hold the book, follow your finger as you read the text and they then repeat it (if they can talk). Kids love this. I think it makes them feel important, smart and more a part of the group.
- Make sure books are readily available for selection, and don’t give too many options or the decision about what to read may take the time you’ve set aside to read.
Of course every family is different, and the larger it gets the more complicated it can become. One has to decide what books are best suited for the entire family, and one might find themselves trying to balance what is good for the older kids, and what’s best for the younger children.
Sometimes we read at the same time in two groups. Either my husband or I will read to/with the boys (our younger children) and the other will read with the girls (older children). We are all in the same room, but are more able to “target” the interests and reading level of our children.
Whatever your demographics, reading as a family is a wonderful tradition to adopt. If you don’t read as a family already, I challenge you to start! If reading as a family is a tradition you’ve already adopted, I’d love to hear what works well for you.
Angie is a word loving, sunshine hoarding, book devouring, organizationally devout mama to a lot. When she’s not juggling the tasks requisite of a mother of 5, you will probably find her trying to steal time for her not-so-guilty pleasure of reading and writing, or promoting literacy within her home, community and on-line. She shares her tales most frequently on her blog, Seven Clown Circus.
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Reading is super important in our house – we have kids 11, 9, and 3. We spend time reading outloud with each of them every night… even the older ones.
My husband is aligned with my son’s genre of fiction and fantasy and dragons…so he read aloud in these GREAT voices.
My daughter and I read books about powerful girls doing the right thing fiction and non-fiction. Our littles loves all books of all types and loves to “read” to us… he’s not quite there yet but loves to be the reader to all of us.
We also have a bookcase in each of their bedrooms, the family room, my office has a whole wall of bookshelves, and the living room in the basement too! Books, Books, Everywhere!
Love this! Reading is so important- I have the best memories from my own childhood reading with my own parents.
Such great advice. Reading is an easy activity to make time for and I think discussing is an important part to remember. We could definitely do more of that!
Great tips! That discussion piece is being highly encouraged in school these days. It helps prep for CSAP, but is also a great way to see if you child understands the story, but also the lesson that many kids’ books contain.
We need to get better about reading at the same time each night. My kids love reading together, but I need to be better about making it a habit.
Thanks for the great post!
Um, you had me with that picture of those darling, darling boys. The rest of the advice about the importance of reading with your kids is just gravy.
A most excellent post, my friend!
I was always one of those moms that didn’t read to her kids. But now I am. I was young when my first 3 were born, very young, and probably should have done things like this for them too. But I am doing it for the younger generation of kids. I read to them every night after they finish their homework. Congrats on your BIG day! Stopping by from SITS
I too agree that reading is important for kids. By discussing what we read with them we get a better understanding of how much they have learned from what was read.
***** stars! Wonderful article Angie, thank you. I am passionate about children’s literature and my 4 grandchildren love a good story. Incorporating singing with puppets is fun for us, too. I love the fact that you said reading together is a Win-Win learning opportunity, so true!
Most of our family “traditions” center around reading out loud. In the cooler months we all “camp out” in the back yard and read. Sometimes we pass the book around to the older kids and they read a chapter before passing it along…sometimes it’s just mom (although Dad has come to my rescue many times when I’m crying through some sappy part too hard to read through ;0) Most always it consists of “PLEEEZZZZZZZZZZE JUST ONE MORE CHAPTER”
– I WILL BE COMPLETE! 
I always say – IF NOTHING BUT SINGING AND READING IS MY LEGACY TO MY CHILDREN (AND LOVING THE LORD OF COURSE