Going Back To School: Is It Worth It?
March 13, 2009 by jyl johnson pattee · 4 Comments
Christi Stapleton is a Christian wife and Mom who is in a graduate school cohort through her undergrad Alma Mater. She also loves and teaches first graders all day! She writes at Blah Blah Blog, Blah Blah Reviews and Showered by Blessings.
Get up. Get ready to go to work. Get 5 and 7 year old dressed, fed, and out the door. Teach first grade all day. Go to meeting after school. Once home, help with homework while hubby gets dinner (Bless him!) Go to meeting after dinner. Get boys bathed, teeth brushed, devotions said, in bed.
Phew! Now I get to sit down and relax for a bit! Right? Not exactly…I have to do MY homework!
Yep, I’ve headed back to school. I wasn’t sure I could do it, but here I am: 14 years after finishing my undergrad, I’m hitting the books again. I am working toward a Master’s Degree in Reading and hope to fulfill my dream of becoming a Reading Specialist.
Nervous is one word that describes how I felt about going back to school. I was nervous about having to study again, nervous about how to balance my classes with work, family, church, and sanity, and nervous about how it would affect my family. I was worried that I couldn’t keep up with the workload.
Then there was the dream I had that I tried to enter a classroom on campus, they wouldn’t let me in!
But nerves aside, it is working out well. I have learned several things on the journey thus far. Here they are, in no particular order:
1. Prioritize!
Though part of me would love to sit at every ball practice that my children have, it isn’t the best use of my time. Take advantage of times when the house is quiet. Sometimes you have to turn off the “Mama Guilt” instinct and insist on time to do work.
2. Your study skills will come back to you.
You may even realize that you are more of a perfectionist than you were when last you cracked a textbook. You will remember how to prepare for tests, write papers, and even your forgotten love of highlighters!
3. Life will not cease to exist if you’re housework doesn’t get done.
Honestly, my house has never been spotless. I’ve had to learn to ‘let go’ of things that bother me some in order to focus on my homework. Yes, it’s still irritating, but I have to remember that this is temporary. Though it may inconvenience us for a while, it is ultimately FOR my family that I am pursuing this degree.
4. The pros outweigh the cons.
I love the satisfaction of getting a paper back with a good grade, or knowing that I did well on a quiz. I also enjoy showing both my own children and my students that adults can learn things, too. It is reassuring to know that I am working toward a goal of helping others learn to read. I especially love knowing that I am following my passion.
Is it hard to go back to school? Yes. Would I do it over again? Absolutely.
Is it worth it? Without a doubt.
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Does Lifelong Learning Only Apply to Degree Seeking Moms?
March 11, 2009 by jyl johnson pattee · 3 Comments
When I was a girl I would sit at my desk in my room and make up homework to do. In short, I was a little nerd and I never quite out grew it. I need to be growing and learning but financial and time constraints derailed my dreams of being a professional college student. So what’s a girl to do? I’m glad you asked.
I joined my first “club” four years ago but only because I was lured there with the promise of wine, lots and lots of wine. Spending evenings with the ladies of “BookIt”, I learned so much more than I did in many of my college lit courses. Rather than approaching a book with a learning agenda, we let the conversation take us wherever. For instance, did you know that the narwhal whale is believed to have spawned the myth of the unicorn? I learned that while discussing The Whale Rider with a woman who studied marine biology in Melbourne.
Shortly after my stint with the book ladies, I started stamping with a wonderful group of women. I have never been a visually artistic person. Ever. I was convinced that I would be a complete failure at this stamping thing. But with laughter and a truckload of patience, they taught me how to tap into my dormant artiste.
Wine clubs are not only an opportunity to get tipsy with friends but also to learn about soils and climate and ITALY. Who doesn’t want to know more about Italy, the birthplace of pasta and Raoul Bova? Mmmm, pasta.
Who needs a college professor when we have each other and Google? We are the educators and the students. Each of us has something to share and something to learn. Mom-o-matic just blogged about the magazine: Semi-Homemade by Sandra Lee and since I’m semi-domestic I had to check it out. You should too. You just might learn something.
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How Can Going Back to School Benefit You & Your Family Long Term?
March 3, 2009 by jyl johnson pattee · 1 Comment
By Genevieve Blaber, College: U Got It?, @CollegeBoundnet
Any mother knows that taking care of children, career, and household can be time-consuming and more than a little daunting. But that doesn’t mean you should, or even have to, give up your career goals. Thanks to the prevalence of online degree programs, career schools, and community colleges, mothers all over the country now have the chance to increase their career potential without sacrificing their family lives. In fact, while the thought of returning to school may seem like a self-indulgent fantasy, it’s a wise move that may benefit you and your family in the long-run.
If you don’t believe us, check out some of these recent stats and figures and think about whether you can afford to give up your career future.
- There’s already a gender gap to contend with, according to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics (BLS). Women who worked full time in 2008 made 20.75 percent less than men when it came to median weekly earnings.
- Across the United States, the wage gap causes the working families to lose $200 billion in income each year, according to the American Federation of Labor and Congress of Industrial Organizations (AFL-CIO)
- Learning equals earning. Amongst full-time workers age 25 and over, the median weekly wages for workers with associate degrees was $727 as compared to $620 for those who had only graduated from high school. Bachelor’s degree recipients did even better with $999 a week, says the BLS.
- According to the New York Times, women are more likely to be involved in industries where the employment rate is not as susceptible to the state of the economy. Such fields include health care and education.
- The top five best state economies for working women according to InfoPlease.com are: the District of Columbia, Maryland, Massachusetts, Minnesota, and Vermont. To contrast, the five worst are: Arkansas, Louisiana, West Virginia, Mississippi, and Kentucky.
- The top five occupations that offered the highest median salaries for women who worked full time were: pharmacists, chief executives, lawyers, computer and information systems managers, and computer software engineers.
- Women currently make up 46 percent of the nation’s workforce and that number is expected to grow a full percentage point over the seven years.
- According to the AFL-CIO, each woman who works in a predominantly male profession makes $3,446 less than her male co-workers every year.
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GNO Gets Smart! Lifelong Learning & Education Options for Today’s Moms!
March 1, 2009 by jyl johnson pattee · Leave a Comment
- Topic: Lifelong learning, including distance learning!
- What: GNO
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- When: From 9 pm EST (8 CST, 7 CST, and 6 PST)
- Who: Featured panelists
Gina LaGuardia, Former editor-in-chief of CollegeBound Teen Magazine, editorial director for The CollegeBound Network, @GinaLaGuardiaKeith Bourne, AdaptiveCampus, @AdaptiveCampus
Capella University representative, @CapellaU
Nicole Russo, Capella University student and single mom of nine-year old; working online toward a Master of Science in Mental Health Counseling degree, @NicatCapella
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What Topics Will We Cover?
All these questions and more answered at Mom It Forward’s #GNO Tues.!
Why moms should consider a return to school (statistics about those who learn/earn; inspiring your family; recreating your professional path; etc.)
How you can balance babies and the books?
What’s online learning really like?
Doing your homework *before* you dive in
How the latest economic stimulus plan affects obtaining an education
Popular programs to consider, and why
What are ways in which you can be a lifelong learner and not have your education stop in the classroom?
- How can you instill in your children a love of learning?
- How can you earn a college or advanced degree given your busy schedule as a mom?
- In this economy, does it make financial sense for me to return to school? If so, what are my options?
- What programs are available to me if I choose to learn a trade instead of going with a traditional institution?
- What’s the value in earning a degree if I don’t plan on having a career?
- How can I apply my degree as a working at home mom?
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